While the grappling in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu may not be as glamorous as the high flying kicks or one punch KO’s of other martial arts, it represents an unavoidable reality that you need to accept if you want to truly be able to fight and defend yourself. The flashy moves fall away in the heat of a real fight and the winner is rarely decided by a spectacular karate chop or Steve Seagal-style wristlock. In the real world, the victor is usually whoever is able to protect themselves while gaining control …